Thursday, July 28, 2011

Revisiting College Life with New PerspectiveToday

Today, after more than a week of class observations at the Southville International School and Colleges, I was made to do my demo teaching to Psychology Majors (juniors), and observed by no less than the Chairperson of the Psychology Department and the Dean of the College of Arts & Sciences and Education.

Of course, it was pressure enough to teach a Development Psychology subject, but to be observed and evaluated by the top officers of the school in front of college students put a lot more pressure on me.

I was only given 1 day to research on my topic -- The 5 Laws of Attraction.

I had a whole day of preparation for my powerpoint presentation and gathering of some materials for activities. Being a department head at the office helped as I was able to juggle my time between meetings and doing my school stuff.

I was given a "Very Good!" by my teachers-supervisors in the feedback sheet. smile

After which, I was invited to the College Dean's office where they verbally communicated they elation on my first demo teaching. I was given a few tips on getting insights from students which I really appreciated -- coming from seasoned professors. The clincher for me was when the Dean told me that I will be a very good professor/lecturer. I was even tipped on a possible slot to handle a Psychology course.

I will have my second and more rigid practice teaching from Monday onwards initially teaching the subject "Intelligence," a General Psychology course for non-majors.

I am really excited about this Practicum course as it has opened me to something which I love to do -- teaching -- but did not have time to do all these years.

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

44th Birthday Video Gift

My 44th Birthday Gift from my kids....



I love you guys! :)

Thursday, November 11, 2010

The Multi-Millionaire Next Door: My 2-cents on How to Become One

You are the multi-millionaire next door. And you probably don't know it.

We know of Henry Sy and Lucio Tan. But who is Philip Ang? The 3 of them are in Forbes Magazine's richest list in the Philippines. Henry Sy is worth 5 billion dollars, Lucio Tan is at 2.1 billion dollars while Philip Ang is at the "bottom" of the 40 Forbes Magazine-listed richest Pinoys, worth 50 million dollars. Many probably know that Henry Sy and Lucio Tan own conglomerates. But little is known about Philip Tan because he's in the field of mining (with holdings in Taganito Mining and Nickel Asia).

It's safe to say that the 3 gentlemen are of Chinese descent. But that doesn't automatically make them multi-millionaires (actually, billionaires!). The question is, "how did they do it?" And the next best question would be, "can I do it?" Yes, you can.

To be one, think like one.

The mind is one heck of a powerful engine of humans that if they are just able to tap 10% of its capability, then a lot can be achieved. Your brain is so powerful that it can command the other body parts to do what it tells them to do. Thus, what the mind can conceive, the body can achieve.


Have a multi-millionaire mindset. As my old friend John Calub would say in his seminars, be a "Money-Magnet." People attract what they want to attract. So first, you'll have to think and believe that you will be rich. Tell yourself everyday that you will get rich. This is the subject of the book and film titled "The Secret."


When I was little, I knew in my heart that I would someday be a successful entrepreneur of sorts. We weren't well-off then. But I wanted to have those cool toys my rich classmates had. I had a pair of used penlight batteries as toys way back then (boo-hoo). In my mind, I saw myself as a rich and successful entrepreneur. I had to start somewhere so I practiced. I started when I was in grade 3. I started a small comics rental business after school hours. I sold Choc-nut to classmates and family. I even went around the campus collecting soda bottles to claim "deposit" at the canteen. I eventually graduated to selling magazine subscriptions in high school and jewelry and retailed eggs in college. Today, I have a media consulting enterprise and some billboard rentals on the side. I also do seminars on starting a business with no capital. :)


Even if you pray daily for financial blessings, but you are not truly convinced that you can have these riches, then you won't have them. That's how it works, my friend.


Don't be afraid to dream.


Never believe when others say,"only in your dreams" that you can achieve and be who you want to be. If you don't dream, there's nothing to come true, right? Be concrete and specific on what you want to have and be. Have a Dream Board. Also called a Vision Board or Dashboard, this is a collage of pictures and affirmations of your dreams or visions. Like a dashboard, a dream board is supposed to be some kind of a control panel which is in front of you all the time. It helps direct you towards your destination or goal. Affirmations such as Ï am Healthy, I am Rich, I am a Pilot, I have a large Farm, etc. are key to having an effective, besides a picturesque, board. Place it somewhere you can see everyday -- when you wake up and just before you go to sleep. The Dream Board will help you maintain your focus. I placed a Tagaytay House and Lot in my 2010 Dream Board last December. I bought a nice property right beside the clubhouse last April. :)


Stay Away from Negative People


The company you keep defines who you are. Many years ago, I was bent on fulfilling my dreams. I wanted to build my own house as a promise to my wife. In my haste, I didn't take time to assess the people I dealt with. Their negativities affected my dealings. Eventually I closed all my businesses with them and just pursued my consulting and corporate job. Today, I only keep positive people within my circle. They provide the sunshine despite some storms that come.


Save and Invest Properly.


Put away at least 10% of your net income (after taxes) in banks and financial interests that earn a decent return. A decent return is defined as something you're comfortable with and not putting too much risk on your savings. There are many financial instruments available besides the basic savings account that only earns 1% interest per year. Ask your bank what they have to offer. There are those bundled savings with "free" insurance, mutual funds, and others tied to the stock market. Of course, you have to calculate and decide the acceptable risk on your part such as purely stock trading. Stay away from forex trading unless you have a real expert to help you out with. Read books and the newspaper for insights. My basic investment instruments are: property (especially with rental opportunities), gold and cash (all kinds of stable currencies like Hong Kong Dollars). If you are an OFW recipient of U.S. Dollars, put some of your money in U.S. Dollar-denominated mutual funds to safeguard your money from erratic exchange rates with the Peso.


If you know of a financial adviser, much better. They are the experts in handling money and making them grow. If you don't know one or can't afford one, then be one. Read up on investment subjects. Just make sure they appeal to you and are comfortable with them. Also make sure the types of investments are applicable to your situation or location.


The best investment I would recommend is a business. It's more long-term and fun. No need to depend on retirement financial plans. If you're looking for the safest investment haven, buy gold. :)


Be an Entrepreneur.


Everyone has a knack for business. Only in the Philippines will you find Sari-Sari Stores in almost every street.You have probably noticed food kiosks sprouting almost everywhere commercially possible. There was the Litson Manok, Shawarma, and Zagu phenomena. Today, it's Double Burger and Scramble.

We just don't know it, but anyone can sell something. The most basic is selling ourselves. If we can't sell ourselves to anyone, we won't have any friends or relationships, right? Besides, everyone has some kind of talent and interest. Discovering what talents and interests we have is the first step in being a successful entrepreneur. Remember that entrepreneurs do not work a day in their lives. They simply do what they love to do -- whatever it may be. They simply add a lot of research, hardwork, and faith to what they pursue, and they're off!

You can be an entrepreneur. Believe it. Work on it.


Learn perpetually.


No one is too old to study. You have to continue learning new things and to keep abreast of technology. Improve on your skills. These are the great enablers in life. If you fall behind, you will miss out on a lot of opportunities.


In 1995, when the Internet was just starting to become commercially applicable, I was blessed to be part of a publishing company that was launching digital versions of its products. We were "forced" to learn this new technology which introduced links to the World Wide Web. Two years later, I was employed as an "expert" in Internet advertising by a travel website that made 25 thousand dollars in banner advertising in its first 3 months of operation. It was surely unheard of in those years, especially when I sold advertising spaces in the Philippines -- during the Asian Crisis!

Today, having studied basic web and graphic design, and having been in digital media ever since, many consider me a veteran (not old, huh!). Well, only a few people like Janette Toral (one of the authors of the E-Commerce Law) and my good friend Jovel Cipriano (Pinoydelikasi.com) can claim to be digital media veterans and experts. We have continuously studied trends and have branched out into separate niches: Janette into blogging, Jovel into e-commerce safety, and me into social media and digital marketing consulting.


Don't be lazy to learn. Learning is freedom.


Be the Millionaire Next Door.


You are a certified millionaire when you have a million pesos in cash stashed somewhere. Whether it's in the bank or in some financial instrument like mutual funds, as long as it's cash, then you're liquid.


When you have earned your first million, keep your head down. Maintain a low profile. Be humble. This attitude keeps you frugal and thus, maintains your liquidity. Of course, you have to enjoy your money, too. Just don't spend beyond your "investable" means. You can spend from your earnings but not on your principal.


Avoid spending on flashy cars unless you can truly afford it. Cars depreciate in value over time. But if you're really looking into a worthy automobile, buy a Mercedez Benz. The Benz doesn't lose its value much over time. Parts are available and don't cost a fortune. Japanese-made cars like the Honda Civic, CRV or Odyssey, or Toyota Altis are also considered investments based on dependability and availability of parts, without spending top dollar.


One last thing.


If you're "in the market" for a long-time partner, find someone who will complement you. Find a teammate. I may be a good salesman and business developer but I couldn't have saved and invested properly without my finance manager and lifetime partner, my Sweetie. I tell her my plans. If she disagrees after much convincing on an investment opportunity, I don't go for it. Your partner has to be the person who is on-the-outside- looking-in. This gives you a different perspective when finding the right financial instrument, investment or savings. And believe it or not, my Sweetie holds the so-called key to the vault and my ATM (haha). That keeps my hand away from the cookie jar. :)


The Challenge.


I want you to be the next Multi-millionaire Next Door. When you do, share your blessings in whatever way you can. Remember that we are just stewards. We are only passing through. Let us leave this world better than we found it.


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HOMER NIEVERA
Business Development. Social Media. Digital Marketing.
http://homernievera.net

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Purgatory: a Cosmic Concentration Camp?

Purgatory: a Cosmic Concentration Camp?
-Fr. Rudy Horst, SVD

Today, we pray for our brothers and sisters still undergoing purification and spiritual maturation in Purgatory.

In 2 Maccabees 12:38-46, Judas Maccabee discovered that the soldiers killed in the battle were hiding pagan amulets and so had violated the Law of Moses by trusting more in amulets than in God. Judas then ordered that prayers and sacrifices be offered for their souls that “they might be freed from this sin.” In other words, Judas and his people strongly believed that prayers and sacrifices can help those who died in sin. And neither Jesus nor the apostles contradicted or corrected this belief.

Due to popular belief and fantasy, nourished by Dante’s Purgatorio and paintings of some medieval artists, a horrible picture of purgatory sticks to the mind of many Catholics. Therefore, it is necessary to first of all “purge” the image. “Holy souls in Purgatory” actually refer to the souls assured of heaven but are in a temporary state of purification, a kind of “remedial class” for heaven-bound souls.

St. Catherine of Genoa once wrote, “I believe no happiness can be found worthy to be compared with that of a soul in Purgatory…and day by day this happiness grows as God flows into these souls more and more, as the hindrance to His entrance is consumed. Sin’s rust is the hindrance, and the fire burns the rust away, so that more and more of the soul opens itself up to the divine inflowing… As the rust lessens and the soul is opened up to the divine ray, happiness grows…”

And the fire? Here St. Augustine gives us consoling information when he writes, “Many faithful have to undergo a purifying suffering by being subjected to a symbolic or metaphorical fire, probably at the moment of death.”

The Feast of All Souls, therefore, should not cause us worry and anxiety but encourage us to assist our brothers and sisters in their process of purification and maturation so that they may soon join the saints in their eternal joy. And we also should not be afraid of Purgatory because it will help us one day to be made ready to join the Lord in heaven.

Reflection Question:

Do I pray for the souls of the departed, not only on All Souls Day but regularly?

Prayer:

Lord, thank You for taking away those frightful, man-made ideas about Purgatory. Listen to my prayers for my loved ones who have left this world that they will soon be with You forever.

Monday, November 1, 2010

Prayer to Release 1,000 Souls in Purgatory

Saint Gertrude showed tender sympathy towards the souls in purgatory and urged prayers for them. She is therefore invoked for souls in purgatory.

To all Catholics around the world, it will only take you one minute everyday to say this prayer of Saint Gertrude to release 1,000 souls from Purgatory and for living sinners as well.

Here's the Prayer of Saint Gertrude:

Eternal Father, I offer Thee the most Precious Blood of Thy Divine Son, Jesus Christ, in union with the Masses said throughout the world today, for all the Holy Souls in Purgatory, for sinners everywhere, for sinners in the Universal Church, for those in my own home and within my family. Amen.

Video of St. Gertrude's Prayer:

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

U.S. Visa for Sale?

(reposted from Yahoo!)

Citizenship for Sale?

by Daniel Gross, Yahoo! Finance
Monday, October 25, 2010


Every day investors around the world choose to put their hard-earned cash into the U.S. Billions of dollars flow in the form of foreign direct investment, as when a group of Brazilians bought Burger King, and foreigners purchase hundreds of billions of U.S. stocks and bonds, as measured by the Treasury's TIC data.

But a small number of investors show up on these shores drawn by something more valuable than financial returns: the prospect of U.S. citizenship.

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Aaron Task and Daniel Gross discuss the visa program on Tech Ticker.

You can't simply purchase an American passport (at least not legally). But since 1990, foreigners with as little as $500,000 in cash have been able to invest their way to a quick green card, putting them on the path to citizenship. Quick, somebody call Lou Dobbs!

Yes, the U.S. government lets people with cash to jump the line for a green card through the EB-5 program.

Starting in 1990, 10,000 visas have been set aside each year for the EB-category. The program was designed to encourage foreign investors to create jobs by starting a new business or preserve jobs by investing in money-losing businesses. If they agree to invest $1 million, foreigners can get a visa, apply for green cards, and become conditional permanent residents.

After two years, provided they've made good on their promise to invest, created 10 jobs (family members don't count), and the business is still an ongoing concern, they can apply to have those conditions removed. And after five years with a green card, holders can apply for citizenship.

Of the 10,000 visas in the program, 3,000 are set aside for "targeted employment areas" -- rural areas, or places with an unemployment rate that's 150 percent or more of the national average. For these visas, the threshold is lowered to $500,000.

Another 3,000 visas are set aside for investments in "regional centers" -- areas or industries designated by states. (A full list of regional centers can be seen here.)

Some organizations, professional service firms, and companies promote the program as a whole, or market investment in particular projects as appropriate for EB5 aspirants, such as a ski resort in Vermont. Other entrepreneurs having a tough time raising cash are now seeking to use the program to tap into new sources of financing. The Wall Street Journal reported last week that developer Bruce Ratner is seeking to use the program to help raise funds in China for his massive, controversial Atlantic Yards development in Brooklyn, N.Y.

Now, many may view the prospect of giving favorable immigration treatment to investors as problematic. The phrase "bring us your moneyed investors yearning to breathe free" doesn't have the same poetic heft as the inscription about the tired, poor, huddled masses etched on the Statue of Liberty. From its inception, the price of citizenship has traditionally been a willingness to leave behind the old world and work hard -- not write a check to support the construction of a bunch of ski-in, ski-out condos.

But I happen to think this is a very good thing. If it were fully utilized, the EB5 program would bring at least $7 billion annually and create or preserve 100,000 jobs per year. It's not much in the grand scheme of things -- there are currently about 130 million Americans with payroll jobs. But given the trauma inflicted upon American workers in the past three years, every little bit helps. And this is something the U.S. should be doing more of.

One cure for the vast overhang of excess housing would be to offer expedited citizenship to people willing to purchase vacant homes in places in like Las Vegas or Detroit.

In fact, it's surprising that more people don't take the U.S. up on its offer. Consider the changing shape of the world's economic geography: We've got American companies with lots of cash that are reluctant to invest at home because they see better prospects abroad. Thanks to that same dynamic, millionaires are being minted by the millions in China, India, and Brazil, and elsewhere.

Unfortunately, the EB5 program has never come close to maxing out. According to U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services, in 2009, just 1,028 people applied for EB5 status and 966 were approved, up from 776 applications and 485 approvals in fiscal 2007. Applications and approvals rose sharply in fiscal 2010, to 1,727 and 1,271, respectively.

I'm guessing the lackluster numbers can be chalked up to a failure of marketing rather than the limited attraction of the underlying product, or of its expense. In fact, the investment-related green card should probably be priced higher. Here's a thought experiment: Ask how much you'd have to be paid to give up American citizenship for you and your family and assume that of a randomly chosen foreign country. Something tells me the bidding would start at a point much higher than $500,000.

Daniel Gross is economics editor and columnist at Yahoo! Finance.

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@grossdm. Email him at grossdaniel11@yahoo.com

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Monday, October 11, 2010

Leaving all, Giving all to God

Leave all and give all to God.

That is the very essence of being a true servant of God. When He asks you to follow him, God expects us to give our all — not just what we can, but everything we are. This is what I learned during our Senior Leaders Retreat at the Development Academy of the Philippines (DAP) over the weekend. The Couples for Christ-FFL seminar was the first of its kind in the District of Paranaque wherein some of God’s core army south of Metro Manila were immersed (read as: reminded) on the need for servant leadership. This indeed was a welcome blessing to us who have been weary of years of battle and mission.

The six power talks were delivered by power speakers, brothers all: PFO head Gary Faustino, Metro Manila head Lachie Agana and senior leader Oca Oblefias who never ran out of humorous punchlines. Bro. Oca also was last night’s game master and fellowship night emcee.

In all, the 2-day retreat was very encouraging. It allowed us to refocus our priorities on what matters most — God’s work and the need for us to lead the frontlines despite our own personal spiritual battles. It was also a welcome respite from our daily work to see our brothers and sisters from all walks of life to re-affirm our commitment as enlisted servants in God’s army.

The retreat’s pictures summarize the fun and camaraderie:

DAP Garden

Our accomodations @ DAP

Sta. Rita with a Song & Dance

Group of the Chief State Posecutor (Bro. Claro)

Bro. Roy serving soup

Serious Participants :)

Las Pinas Team

Bros. Oca & Lachie and participants

Bro. Narcing & Sta. Rita Team

Bro. Jojo with group from Paranaque District

The Food Line

Lunchtime with Sta. Rita Vicariate


A-OK for these participants

Bro. Jojo Dunglao

Listening to the Talks

Seniors Class 2010